You probably heard that old expression from your mother!
To be honest, a really good reason to avoid sex on the first date is…
Simply that you get to weed out guys who are just looking to add you to their list of conquests.
So if you’re looking for a serious, lasting and loving relationship then read on to tune into what men really think about sex on the first date.
What’s Really on Their Mind
I once surveyed over 2,000 men and asked them their thoughts on sex on the first date.
The message from the men in my survey about having sex right away was:
“I get emotionally numb. It ruins my ability to have in love feelings for her.”
The woman he beds so easily is reduced to a being just another pattern of pleasant sensations — like a good beer or a fine cigar.
She is a commodity to be enjoyed, but there is no long-term attachment. It’s almost like playing a sport like baseball or basketball with her.
The bottom line is…
If you sleep with a man on the first date, he’s less likely to consider you for a serious relationship. You’re just short-term recreational fun with no commitment.
Physical Intimacy vs Emotional Intimacy
I’ve talked to many women who say they have sex with a guy to feel a connection with him.
But remember this…
So before you get physically intimate, you need to…
Men actually enjoy the chase, and they respect you more for it.
Let him earn the right to enjoy you and your intimate mysteries.
Kiss and have fun, but don’t have sex right away. There are plenty of ways to tease and please without actually having intercourse.
And when it does happen, it’ll be so much more rewarding for both of you when your emotional connection is already strong!
Become the One Woman He Can’t Live Without
Avoiding sex on the first date is just one of the ways you can get a guy to feel like you’re the one woman he can’t live without.
There are lots more simple yet powerful techniques you can use to make him absolutely idolize you…
Discover how you can mesmerize any man and make him fall in love you forever!
About the Author:
Annalyn Caras surveyed over 2,000 men for her best selling eBook Mesmerize Him… And Make Him Love You Forever.
Mesmerize Him has helped thousands of women to find, attract, and form an unbreakable bond with their ideal life partner.
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