^[1]Do you slink into a room without making eye contact, hoping no one notices you…?

Or, do you stride in confidently, shoulders back, head up, smiling at those around you?

As a woman, the way you carry yourself upon entering a room can speak volumes about your self-esteem!

Most men can spot an anxious, insecure woman a mile away and will avoid her at all costs.

And, believe it or not, men do want to find that special someone to settle down with…

However, it’s very important that she be a happy, self-confident individual.

Wouldn’t it be nice to know exactly how to avoid sending the wrong signals to men, and start attracting the man of your dreams ^[1]? Read on!

Are You Sending All the Wrong Signals to Men?

Ironically, if you are a self-confident woman, there’s a chance that your confidence might be sending silent signals to men that say, “Don’t come too close, I don’t need a man.”

^[1]You’re not alone. Many women fear being perceived by men as being “needy.”

And in an attempt NOT to come across this way, it’s fairly common for them to display an independent streak.

This sends men the wrong signal.

Let me tell you a secret about what men really want in a woman…

Yes, it’s true that every man wants a confident woman. But, they want one who is willing to let a man influence her.

However, a woman who doesn’t show any vulnerability until she gets to know a man is inadvertently giving men the impression that she is stronger, tougher and more independent than she really is, deep down in her heart.

This can create an ineffective pattern which runs on auto-pilot, usually beneath the radar of awareness…

And unconsciously sabotages her deepest desire to find love.

Becoming Aware of Your Self-Sabotaging Pattern

The good news is that once you identify the ineffective pattern and replace it with an effective one…

There’s a very high probability that you ‘ll find, attract and have a successful relationship ^[1] with the man of your dreams.

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Yes — believe it or not, it’s as simple as that!

The first step to becoming aware of your self-sabotaging pattern is to ask yourself this question…

And be really honest with yourself when answering:

What are the top 3 attributes or traits of your dream man?

Now, listen closely.

Just because you picked the top 3 qualities of your dream man does not mean those are the things you want in a man! Let me explain…

Reprogramming Your Pattern to Attract Your True Dream Man

I’m sure you’ve known women who’ve gushed about finding their dream man — saying he has all the things they’ve been looking for. And yet later on, they find out that their dream man turns out to be Mr. Wrong.

Perhaps this has even happened to you?

This all has to do with the ineffective pattern I spoke of earlier. You have an unconscious pattern of being attracted to an imaginary picture of an “ideal” man that, in reality, is completely wrong for you.

^[1]You see, the top 3 things you answered are what you think you want in a man — and not necessarily what you really want in a man.

In my 17 years of relationship coaching, I’ve found that what most women think they want in a man is incompatible with what they REALLY want.

No wonder they can’t find their dream man! There’s a big discrepancy between the two.

By taking the steps to truly be honest with yourself and discover the optimum qualities that you want in a man — a man who is your most preferred choice based on what’s really important to you…

You’ll be able to attract an endless pool of ideal men who are custom-tailored for you — and who are also most likely to be mutually attracted to you and want to marry you.

If you would like to follow a proven plan that will help you easily identify your self-sabotaging, ineffective pattern to love…

Check out my ebook How to Find the Man of Your Dreams ^[1].

After all, don’t you deserve to be happy in love?

Find out how you can find true love that lasts forever ^[1].

About the Author:

^[1]Bob Grant is known as the “Relationship Doctor” and is a Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship coach with 17 years of successful practice.

Bob has counseled hundreds of real-life female clients and helped them successfully find, attract and marry their dream man.

He continues to be invited to many weddings, which keeps him thrilled and motivated to help as many women as he can to find, and marry, the man of their dreams.

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