There’s an amazing “high” that comes with achievement, respect, power, and money.
This natural “high” is extremely addictive, which is why most people find themselves motivated to achieve even more.
Here’s an interesting question for you: what if you could create that same kind of high and focus in your love life?
Imagine how fulfilling that would be.
The Importance of Sex
The physical side of your relationship is what keeps it vibrant and alive so, it’s something that shouldn’t be ignored.
Have you ever noticed what you’re saying when you use the term “making love?” Sex between lovers regenerates love.
Without the intimate, physical side of things, your relationship stagnates and you and your partner will begin to feel like roommates instead of lovers.
Intimate connection is like a glass with a hole in the bottom…
If you don’t keep refilling it, it will eventually run dry. That’s when people start to wonder where the love went.
Making love keeps the glass full.
Doing it All Day
To spice up your sex life, simply make love all day long.
“Yikes,” you say, “No way! Who has the time or the energy?!”
When I say “making love” I’m not just referring to the obvious or literal meaning.
If you’d like to make love all day, you have to first redefine what making love means.
To me, making love is anything that gets the juices flowing, makes you think of each other with longing, or allows you to connect physically in ways that arouse, if only a few moments.
Long, slow kisses, touching, teasing, holding each other, and gazing into each other’s eyes are all different ways to make love.
It’s a great way to maintain an intimate connection throughout the day.
Linger over hello and good-bye kisses for at least ten seconds – no pecks allowed! Why not share a deep kiss as you part in the morning and when you return at night?
That alone can make all the difference when you’re together.
How to Turn up the Heat…
Purchase several slightly risqué cards, then once in a while leave one where your man will find it; in his drawer or in his briefcase, for example.
You could also try leaving sexy notes left around the house.
Push the envelope a little and say things that surprise him and make him want you as soon as he can get his hands on you.
And speaking of briefcases…
Why not leave a pair of slinky panties somewhere he’ll find them? (As long as you’re sure no one else will see him open it. You don’t want to embarrass him!)
He won’t be able to get his mind off (or his hands!) off you!
Tease each other with sexy talk and innuendo. Have fun with it and be playful.
Have you ever left a sexy message on his voice mail? How about making a CD or MP3 having it set to play when he gets into his car.
Be daring, adventuresome, and just a little bit naughty.
If you’re used to sleeping in a nightgown, climb into bed naked for a change. Notice his reaction.
If sleeping naked is the norm, slip on that see-through nighty he hasn’t seen for a while. Or buy something outrageous. Take it another step and try a costume…
Maybe even a wig.
A wig can let him feel like he’s with another woman – you know, that typical guy fantasy – and you just might find yourself doing things the “real” you would never even consider.
Are his t-shirt and old boxers a turn-off for you?
Buy him a pair of silk boxer shorts and both of you enjoy the sensual pleasures of how good he feels under that slippery fabric.
How’s Your Fantasy World?
If you get in the habit of regularly thinking about making love with your partner…
You’ll find yourself having trouble keeping your hands off of him when you see him next.
Fantasize about what you’d like to do to him and what you’d like him to do to you.
Be wild and let your imagination go wherever it will.
Buy props to bring your fantasies to life. Get some whipped cream and chocolate and serve him a dessert he won’t forget.
What about tying him to the bed, blindfolding him, and teasing him with feathers, pearls, or maybe ice? Get creative and see where it goes.
Practice, Practice, Practice!
Sex begets sex. The more you do it, the more you think about it, the more you want it.
It gives you more energy, and you’ve got to admit, it’s a terrific sleep aid.
And here’s a really important bit of advice: let go of making orgasm the goal of lovemaking.
That kind of pressure makes you want to put it off till “you have more time” then you both miss out on the real pleasures of skin on skin, being held, kissing, and seeing pleasure in each others eyes.
None of these suggestions take much time but your love life will become so much hotter!
If you yearn to feel closer to your partner, be more adventurous in bed and recapture the attraction and heat you felt when you first met…
The No Longer Boring in Bed program will reveal the secrets to creating intense passion and pleasure in the bedroom that will have him begging for more!
About the Author:
Kara Oh is a best-selling author and co-creator of the No Longer Boring in Bed program. She’s taught workshops on sex and sensuality for several years.
She’s a dating and relationship coach, seminar leader, inspirational speaker, radio and TV personality, mother and grandmother.
Kara has been interviewed on hundreds of radio and TV shows and she’s given seminars across the country. She’s been featured in magazines like Cosmopolitan and Women’s World where she shares her insights about what makes men tick and how to create amazing relationships.
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