Are you weary of trying to figure out what’s going on in your man’s mind?
Tired of fighting for your guy’s attention?
You might even be wondering what happened to the good old days, back when the two of you first met.
Once upon a time there were long conversations over leisurely dinners and weekends spent lazing around the house together.
Back then, you were the center of his universe. You used to get a lot of his attention, but lately things seem to have really changed.
Understanding The Male Mind
These days, your man is more likely to stare at a report from work than stare into your eyes!
You feel a little worried and you can’t help wondering if he still loves you like he used to.
Here’s the truth about your man that will set you free:
He defines himself by his work.
In other words, men measure how successful they are at being “real men” by how good they are at their jobs.
A good man is intent on providing well for his family, which is what drives him to work harder and aim for the corner office.
Here’s the thing – you are the key to how good he feels about himself.
If you are happy he feels successful, and if you’re unhappy he feels like a failure. This might sound strange or even hard to believe but it’s important to grasp this truth or you might end up tearing through his identity and emasculating him!
Men are goal-oriented and in the beginning, he was set on winning your heart.
Now that he’s achieved that, it’s not surprising that he’s gone back to focusing on work.
This is not an excuse, this is a fact.
Show Him What You Need
It’s unlikely that he hid his burning ambition from you when you met, or in the early part of the relationship.
You probably knew you what kind of man you were getting involved with, so it’s unfair to complain now and more importantly it’s VERY unattractive to him!
If you never stop criticizing his lack of attention, you’ll only drive him further away. That’s another fact.
A far more effective way of winning his attention is to show him how much you appreciate him.
You could do nice things for him and say, “I’m doing this as a thank you for (fill in the blank with what he did for you) because it meant a lot to me.”
You should also make it a point to come right out and tell him what makes you happy.
If your man is right for you, he’ll try harder to shower you with the attention you deserve when he sees you’re making an effort to understand what makes him tick.
You Have The Power
You may not realize this but all women possess an incredible ability to persuade men.
You already have what it takes to influence any man you want with your feminine power.
If you want a successful, fulfilling, loving relationship, it’s absolutely important to know how to use this power in the right way.
Learn more by watching my free video on how to have any man eating out of the palm of your hand!
About the Author:
Kara Oh became an expert on men by accident…
While interviewing men to be on a panel for a workshop on sensuality, they told her things she knew women needed to know in order to have more fulfilling relationships. She stopped presenting workshops and spent two years researching men.
Kara lives in Santa Barbara with her partner, Stephen Gordon. She continues to help women through writing, hosting her radio show and filming videos.
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