One moment he’s totally into you, the next moment he’s gone completely cold.
Just last week he’s calling you almost everyday. And suddenly, he doesn’t call you at all this week.
On top of that, he doesn’t even bother to answer your calls…
It’s frustrating. And it can even shatter your confidence. You can’t help but ask yourself…
What did I do wrong? Was it something I said?
Your mind then starts going crazy, replaying every conversation you had to analyze what could have caused this. It’s not a healthy situation to be in.
If this sounds familiar, then make sure you read this article. Because these few tips can help you turn the tables around…
Not only will he call you back. He’ll want to spend even more time with you.
A man’s logic can be extremely hard to understand, especially when he starts getting hot and cold with you.
The first thing women do is think: “What’s causing this? What can I do?”
And that’s a perfectly normal reaction. After all, women are wired to be the species that nurtures and heals.
So when a man starts becoming distant, she immediately wants to nurture the relationship and heal the perceived fracture.
Men however have a tendency to, well… run back into their cave every now and then.
And it’s completely separate from what you might have done (or didn’t do).
They’re just simply hardwired to be this way.
So if you find yourself in the situation when a man is giving you the cold shoulder out of the blue, the last thing you should do is try harder.
The only thing you need to do is understand how his brain is wired, and to communicate with him on his terms.
Understanding a Man’s Brain
Here’s the bottom line. Men value their independence most.
They want to be free at all costs!
Women on the other hand have strong needs for intimacy and connection. They like to feel connected almost all the time.
In a nutshell… a man will start acting hot and cold when he has had, in a way, too much of “you.”
But it’s not your fault! His behaviour is completely separate from your actions.
He just needs his “independence” back for a little while. He needs some space and time to recover.
The big mistake most women make is they try harder…
Sending text messages. Calling mutiple times. Leaving voice messages asking him over and over to tell them what’s wrong…
Instead of leaving him alone (which is what he really wants – and needs – from you!)
Pestering him will only make the problem worse and he will most likely withdraw even more.
So give him his space when he’s acting withdrawn. If you stay away from him for a few days, and give him the space he needs…
He will feel an amazing connection with you to the extent that he will become literally addicted to you.
So when he does run out of his cave, he runs straight back to you.
Become the Ultimate Guy Magnet
This formula might seem to go against a woman’s instinct to nurture, heal, and create intimacy.
But trust me, this formula has been tried and tested. It’s been proven to work with men every single time.
So when you see him starting to get distant, make it a habit to take two steps back.
To learn more foolproof methods to attract any guy and keep him attracted to you for as long as you want, watch this complementary video.
About the Author:
James Scott is a popular relationship expert and author. He has helped thousands of women all over the world go from being single and lonely to landing a relationship with the guy of their dreams.
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