Even well past the dating phase, these guys still buy flowers, they remember every special occasion, and they give their women their full attention when they are with them…
They never retreat to the garage, never ignore them to watch the football game on TV, and never disappear for hours on end to play golf with their buddies.
Well, recent reports from relationship scientists (yes, those do exist!) say that you can actually get that exact same love, attention and warmth from your man…
Regardless of how long you’ve been together or how rocky your relationship may be.
The secret to unlocking this same love and affection from your man is probably something you’ve never considered.
But once you know the secret…
You can literally change your man and influence him to treat you better — even like a princess!
Now before you accuse me of encouraging underhanded manipulation, let me explain by asking you a question:
Is there something you do or say to your man that REALLY gets him going?
Whatever it is, you KNOW it drives him batty and the result is typically the same.
Within milliseconds, his face turns the color of a boiled lobster, his heart practically leaps out of his chest and he either explodes with rage, sits there stone-faced, not saying a word…
Or he runs away to the garage and you don’t see him for hours.
Leaving you to wonder WHAT just happened?!
His Brain Was Just Hijacked…
Familiar with the fight or flight response?
Well, you just witnessed it and it’s the reason why a simple argument can turn into an all-out war.
Every one of us has a little internal guard on duty 24/7 in our brain…
It’s called the amygdala and it’s a small walnut-sized part of your brain responsible for alerting the body to danger.
The amygdala processes incoming information and automatically searches your memory bank to determine if it recognizes the information as friend or foe.
All of this happens instantly, and if the brain has memory of that word or action and the memory is bad…
The body goes into an automatic negative response over which you have almost NO control.
And this automatic negative response is triggered by those little shoulder shrugs, those eye rolls…
And anything else you may do that has conditioned your man to react negatively.
And once this happens, it’s game over…
Your man won’t listen to anything you say after this and you’ll both go round and round with finger-pointing, name-calling and laying blame on each other.
How to Eliminate these Triggers and Establish a Deep Emotional Connection
The good news is that you CAN uncover what these triggers are (for both of you) and set the stage for both of you to plant, nurture and harvest new feelings of love and intimacy.
Here’s what you do:
You know what they are, if you dig deep enough. Maybe you use a “tone,” you make a face, you have a specific phrase you say when discussing a touchy subject…
Or anything else you may do to get a negative response out of him.
Now, write these down now and remember them.
2. Go straight to the source: ask him what you do that sets off his emotional firebombs.
But don’t get defensive. Let him have his say and just listen.
He may feel reluctant at first to share, or maybe he’s not even aware that there might be something specific linked to his going off.
Regardless, after you begin compiling your list, here is what you do…
Avoid these words or actions at ALL COSTS.
Once these are gone, your guy won’t have those mental blocks or love filters, and you’ll have a much easier time building intimacy and affection again.
Want to learn more tips about how you can melt his heart and have your man treat you like he did when you first started dating…
Watch this intriguing video presentation for a powerful technique that works in almost any situation!
About the Author:
For 25 years, Randy has specialized in restoring marriages, pre-marital counseling and family restoration.
He has become one of the country’s leading authorities in helping women learn to become assertive in order to positively influence their husband and transform their relationships.
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