You might think that the way to beat boredom in the bedroom is to engage in elaborate role play or invest in expensive gadgets (à la “50 Shades of Grey”).
But, if you’re like most women I know, you lead a very busy life.
You’re looking for straightforward, practical tips that are proven to work — and that you can start using tonight!
Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate:
Tip #1: Do it doggy-style
Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it’s a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well.
Even though you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits:
- It’s great for guys because it gives them full control
- It’s one of the best positions for hitting your G-spot
- It allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots
The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration. (But if he’s “above-average,” he’ll need to be careful — deep thrusts might hit your cervix, which can be quite painful.)
I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that certain areas of the body LOVE attention.
Yes, men love to be touched sensually too!
Many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, but there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify his orgasm.
Believe it or not, these are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated:
Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.
Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again!
Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course, you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.”
But he won’t think so — he’ll LOVE you for this.
Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special night of lovemaking that you can cherish for years to come.
Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.
Are you surprised to learn to that your man will probably be more turned on by your being barely clothed than completely naked?
Believe it. Men are highly visual, and when you combine that with some delayed gratification, your man will go wild.
Put on some sexy music (however you define it) and let him enjoy you either slowly by peeling off your clothes or make an entrance with your sexy lingerie.
Visually tease him with sights of your cleavage and peeks of your other special places. He’ll struggle to keep his hands off you.
If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of the hand job.
It’s true — all men love it. It feels great, and it’s visually exciting for men to see your smooth and sexy hands playing with his “best friend.”
Learn the tips to tease, tantalize, and blow the socks off your man with an amazing hand job and he will be so sexually addicted to you he’ll do anything to keep you by his side.
If hand jobs aren’t your forte, don’t fret — I have valuable information for you!
I’ve surveyed nearly 100,000 men on this topic, and put together a comprehensive guide based on their responses. You won’t find this kind of detailed, no-nonsense information anywhere else.
Learn how to give your man mind-blowing hand jobs and your love life will reach an even deeper level of intimacy!
About the Author:
Michael Webb, Oprah’s love expert, is the author of more than 15 books on romance, dating, relationships, marriage and sex, including Stroke by Stroke: How to Give Amazing Hand Jobs.
Media around the world have referred to Michael as “The World’s Most Romantic Man,” “America’s Romance Expert,” “Mr. Romance,” and “The Martha Stewart of Romance.”
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