Imagine if you hit the “jackpot of love?”
You’d finally have everything you’ve ever wanted in a man…
Wouldn’t that be absolutely amazing? All you’d need to do is to enjoy your wonderful guy and live happily ever after…
Sounds easy but unfortunately that’s not always true.
In my years as a relationship coach, I’ve worked with women who actually did hit the “jackpot of love.”
They find the man of their dreams…
And then they do everything in their power to completely sabotage the relationship!
Waiting for Heartache
Let’s use Maggie (not her real name) as an example. After years of being in one dramatic, unhealthy relationship after another, she was finally ready for a change.
She’d decided it was time to put in the work to find The One and create a healthy, committed, lasting relationship.
Then…JACKPOT! Maggie struck it rich in love.
She met Mr. Right: Handsome, smart, funny, charming, successful, and — here’s the best part — totally into her!
But then Maggie freaked out.
One of her emails read, “Paige, I don’t know what my deal is. I love this man. I’m trying to believe he loves me. But it all seems too good to be true. I feel like I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop.”
Instead of feeling confident and worthy, she began to let insecurity and fear take hold.
And then she did everything in her power to sabotage this amazing new relationship.
You see Maggie was used to heartache and settling for less than she deserved. Even though it was painful, it felt familiar.
With some encouragement, she is getting back on track. Luckily, her guy is so smitten that he didn’t get scared away by a few bumps in the road.
Sidestep the “Curse”
Don’t let yourself fall victim to The Curse of the Relationship Jackpot.
Here are 4 “red alert” warning signs you’re destroying your relationship and how you can stop it right now!
Warning Sign #1 – You Choose Fear Over Faith
Sure, it can be scary to let go and fall in love. What if it ends? What if you get hurt? Well, what’s the alternative…
To be alone and miserable?
I’d say it’s worth the risk to open your heart and let it be flooded with happiness.
Warning Sign #2 – You React Emotionally
Often, the things we have the urge to do or say in a moment of emotional weakness are NOT what we would do or say when we’ve had some time to process our thoughts and feelings.
We serve up a big dose of drama when we react emotionally to situations instead of taking a 5-minute “time out” to think things through and act rationally.
Warning Sign #3 – You Obsess About the Future
One of the biggest dating mistakes women can make is asking a man what he’s thinks about your future together, or pressuring him to define the status of the relationship too soon.
Just go with it. The right time will come to discuss the future. For now, try to think like a man and just enjoy the present!
Warning Sign #4 – You Stop Dating Yourself
The only way to feel truly happy and whole is to complete ourselves by living a full and satisfying life.
One of the worst things you can do when you get into a relationship is to abandon the things that are important to you (friends, passions, career goals, hobbies, etc).
So no matter how serious your relationship, always date yourself first.
When you stop expecting your partner to be responsible for your happiness, you eliminate pressure and drama.
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About the Author:
A leading relationship coach, Paige Parker has helped hundreds-of-thousands of women around the world understand men better and love themselves more so that they can find and keep the true love that they deserve.
Paige is happily married to an amazing man and together they have two incredible little boys. And yes…
She used the same techniques she teaches to attract her husband and to keep their relationship exciting and new, year after year.
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