Everyone dreams of finding a soul mate and living happily ever after…
Your soul mate is that one person who’s always there to give unconditional love, comfort and support.
Most of us spend years and sometimes even decades looking for a love like that…
Unfortunately, when we finally find what we’ve been waiting for we sometimes end up unconsciously sabotaging the relationship…
By being too obsessive!
It’s sad when that happens but it’s not surprising, really.
After all, who doesn’t feel insecure and terrified when they’re worried about losing that special someone?
But here’s the thing…
Becoming needy and obsessive is a HUGE mistake because these are the very behaviors that will — sooner or later — drive the love of your life away.
Being too dependent on another person can cause huge amounts of emotional and physical stress…
And being obsessive in a relationship is NEVER healthy.
In fact, it’s often a deal breaker!
That’s why it’s absolutely crucial to give your partner space and freedom so both of you can enjoy a healthy and happy life together.
Here are 4 simple but effective methods to overcome too much dependency and avoid falling into the “obsession trap” in your relationship.
If you’re feeling jealous, it could be for a number of reasons.
One of the main ones is that you’re depending solely on your partner to feel secure and worth.
The moment he glances at another woman on the street, you’re up in arms that he’s about to leave you!
Intense jealousy can make it almost impossible to function like normal couples do.
That’s why it’s absolutely vital to seek help and find ways to get over it as soon possible.
There are endless sources of relationship advice out there.
Make it a point to look for sound ideas and effective techniques that will help you overcome those feelings of obsession and dependency.
The first thing you should focus on is your fear of losing the one you love. If you don’t get past this one, you’ll never be able to move on to a better, more fulfilled life with the one you love.
If you think that you need to get in-depth help for this problem, you may want to consider therapy to help you get through it.
Good therapists can help you overcome insecure feelings and deep-seated fears so you can learn to turn to the wisdom and strength within yourself for the love and support you need.
Think about your personal “worst case scenario” — even if you have to force yourself to do it!
The truth is you MUST figure out what makes you so scared that you have these overwhelming obsessive feelings towards your partner.
One of the best ways to do this is to take some time to get in touch with yourself. Think about what you are feeling and sit down and allow yourself time to breathe.
Be gentle with yourself as you dive deep into your fears and feelings and explore why you feel this way.
Sometimes all it takes to make your fear disappear is to shine a light on it.
You may have to separate yourself from your partner until you have learned to deal with your obsession.
It is absolutely important to be by yourself for a while and discover your own strengths so you can start to have faith and trust in yourself.
This will help you move forward and become independent and happy on your own…
And it will certainly reduce or even eliminate your feelings of neediness and obsession toward your partner.
The most important key to achieving happiness and enjoying a successful relationship is your commitment to yourself to change the way you feel.
You will see that you can have a happy, healthy relationship when you decide to take control of your own life and learn to feel loved, secure and happy on your own.
Almost all relationships and marriages could be long lasting if you learn to understand yourself and the man in your life…
In fact, I believe there’s no relationship that’s beyond repair — even if you’ve already broken up!
If you’d like to get back together with the love of your life, check out my proven, step-by-step guide that will show you how to keep him by your side forever.
About the Author:
Cucan Pemo, the creator of Bring Back a Lost Love, has dealt with her own personal relationship failures and built a solid, long-lasting relationship with her loved one.
She discovered much of the information she shares in her book through the wisdom of a man called Jeffery. She found the knowledge she gained to be so powerful she put together this guide to empower others in their relationships too.
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