Well, I’m here to fill you in on a few simple tricks to get guys looking in your direction.
Let me start by asking you a quick question: Who says you need to wait for him to come over to talk to you?
A lot of women overlook the fact that they can take an ACTIVE role in the attraction process — especially when it comes to showing signs of interest.
If you really like someone, there’s nothing wrong with meeting him halfway!
Of course, you don’t want to make it too easy for him…but a little effort on your part is okay!
With just a little encouragement to get the ball rolling, you can become magnetic to quality guys who can’t wait to get to know you.
Trick #1: Switch Off the Ice Princess Routine
Don’t bother with the ice princess routine if you’re into him; drop subtle hints to get his attention.
Here are a couple of ideas:
- Look at him! Don’t act like a freak and stare at the guy — a few, short quick glances his way works best (for best results add a smile!)
- Does your face tell guys you want them to talk to you, or is it keeping them away? A fun, playful expression on your face will increase your approachability.
This may sound like earth-shattering news to a lot of women out there…but quality guys appreciate a girl who makes just enough effort to be noticed.
And by “making just enough effort,” I mean going out of your way to talk to him — but keep the chit-chat light and casual. Let him fill his side of the conversation.
Obviously you like him, so there’s no need to actually tell him that. Just by being friendly, high-energy and humorous, you’ll be able to effortlessly capture his unwavering interest.
Trick #2: The Smart Way to Flirt
Guys are likely to be interested in a girl who isn’t afraid to have a fun, light-hearted conversation and have a few laughs.
This is what’s known as FLIRTING.
That approach is way too heavy for a guy, especially in the beginning.
The smart way to flirt is just by being playful in a good-spirited way to let him know that you don’t take yourself too seriously.
In other words, although you like him, don’t give him the impression that your objective is to make him like you. You’re just there to be in the moment.
So just have fun without pressuring him with any expectations. Remember, a needy vibe drives men away!
Trick #3: Seal the Deal
To really seal the deal, let me offer you one last bit of advice: look your best!
Now, this is not about looking perfect…
Yes, in the long run, having a great personality and attitude is what really counts.
But let’s face it, the first stages of attraction take place on a visual level.
So, take the time to show the world that you “have it together.” Working out, eating right, and choosing clothes that accentuate your frame will help you as you approach guys.
Also, on the subconscious level, it tells guys that you value yourself enough to be at your most fabulous.
Ready to Meet Your Sweet?
No one else is going to do it for you.
Quality guys are out there, and they’re not going to run out anytime soon. YOU have the power to become the woman that guys want to be around!
Once you’ve met your sweetheart, learn how you can keep his interest for good with this complimentary, eye-opening presentation.
About the Author:
Slade Shaw has been a successful dating coach since 2007.
His fresh ideas and forthright advice in helping both men and women achieve their untapped potential and attract the partner of their dreams has catapulted him as a recognized authoritative new voice in the singles dating market.
He is the author of numerous books and courses, including the relationship guide Why Men Pull Away.
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