Often, we’re not very aware of why things don’t feel quite right in a long-term romance.
You may wonder if your relationship is over, and hope that somehow, the love will return.
The truth is, if you’ve been together for a while, those “in love sparkles” can disappear.
But what if you could help keep the feelings of being ‘in love’ alive forever?
How to Bring Back the “Sparkles”
There are essentially 3 powerful methods to start and keep those “in love sparkles” going. Here they are in no particular order:
1. Start having fun again with your partner
2. Practice the “magical” kiss
3. Speak in a loving way
Method #1 – Start Having Fun Again
Remember when you first fell in love? Weren’t you having fun doing pretty much anything?
And didn’t you make a point to create activities and time together so you could have fun and enjoy each other’s company?
Didn’t you laugh and do silly things because you felt so young and carefree?
Well, think back; what did you do then that you can plan to do now? Make things happen because they aren’t going to happen on their own!
Method #2 – Practice the “Magical” Kiss
You’ll never get in the mood for romance if all you ever do is give each other quick pecks on the cheek.
You need to allow a kiss to go on for at least ten seconds.
If you kiss for ten seconds as you part company in the morning, you’ll both be thinking about each other in new and spicy ways.
If you share ten second kisses when you meet at the end of the day, you might end up in the bedroom for a spontaneous romp…
And if you kiss for ten seconds when you’re in bed, it’s amazing how often you will no longer be too tired to have sex!
Method #3 – Speak Up in a Loving Way
This is a bit tricky if you’ve both been holding back and allowing resentment to build up over the years.
The biggest problem with resentment is that it causes couples to begin to develop loathing toward their partners.
After all, who wants to be touched by someone they loathe?
That’s why I call resentment the killer of love. An important point to remember is that you might create resentment towards your partner if you don’t speak up when they do or say things that irritate or annoy you a little.
However, please make sure that you speak up in a loving manner or it’s your partner who will end up resenting you!
There are many more ways to recapture the love and romance you felt for each other in the very beginning of your relationship…
But these 3 methods are among the most effective. Try them for a few weeks and you’ll notice a significant change in your relationship.
These habits will help you deepen your intimacy with your partner, strengthen the bond you share and fall in love all over again!
If you’d like to learn more effective methods to reignite the love in your marriage and rediscover the passion you shared when the two of you first met…
Please check out my Marriage Makeover Manual.
This in-depth guide contains powerful tools to bring back the joy and sparkle to your relationship…
Even if you think you’re on the brink of divorce!
About the Author:
Kara Oh is a nationally recognized authority on men, marriage, dating and her trademark, Feminine Grace.
She has been interviewed on hundreds of radio and TV shows sharing her insights about what makes men tick and how to create heart-thumping, toe-curling relationships.
Kara is a mother of two grown children and grandmother of a teenage grandson. She is enjoying a beautiful relationship with a “younger” man who has two young girls that keep her life interesting.
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