Give Yourself Permission to Move to the Front of the Line : Its All About Women!

Give Yourself Permission to Move to the Front of the Line

By Tara Marino On December 16th, 2011

As women, many of us spend a lot of time waiting in the back of the line. It starts when we’re kids, and sometimes continues throughout our whole lives.

It’s time to give yourself permission to head to the front of the line.

Let me tell you about something I noticed a few months ago at my son’s Halloween Carnival. At the carnival there were games set up, and after you played the game you would receive a piece of candy.

Before I knew it, my son was in line.

Except he wasn’t at the back of the line. He was in the front. “Hmmm,” I thought to myself, “That line moves really quickly.” I watched him dribble the soccer ball around the tin cans and receive his candy.

Then I saw Dominic get back in line, not at the back, but at the front of the line!

My first instinct was to tell him to go to the back and wait like the other children, but instead I chose to pay closer attention to what was going on. Dominic had a conversation with the child in front of him and the child in back of him and they had both agreed to let Dominic in the line.

He radiated charisma and confidence, because he believed that was where he should be in the line.

It was also interesting watching the children who were in the back of the line, waiting and waiting and hardly interested in the game at all.

The whole time I also watched my son move from line to line, so light and certain that he wanted to fully participate as much as possible. For him it felt right to be in the front of the line and not wait.

I am not suggesting that anyone push, fight or battle her way to the front of the line. However, I am suggesting you don’t unnecessarily wait at the back.

Evaluate your behavior when it comes to life and your ability to ask for what you want.

When we were little kids, many of us were taught to be patient and wait our turns. However, now that we’re grown up, many of us still find ourselves waiting. Waiting for someone else to give us permission, waiting until we inherit the money, waiting until the kids are gone, waiting until…

Would you like to give yourself permission to move to the front of the line in your own life?

Ask yourself the following questions:

When was the last time I asked for something that I was afraid to ask for?
When was the last time I received something I really wanted?
What do I feel I need to always wait for?
What piece of me feels I do not deserve to be at the front of the line? Is it that I feel someone else deserves it more?
What one thing can I ask for/do this week that will move me to the front of the line in my life?

Moving to the front of the line isn’t selfish. It is an essential component if you want to have prosperity, pleasure, and balance in your life.

In order for you to truly be who you are meant to be you need to put yourself out there, take risks and move to the front without waiting for permission.

If you find yourself waiting, maybe it’s time to stop and move to the front of the line today. You will thank yourself!

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About the Author:

Tara Marino is a woman of deep sensuality and feminine energy, who, over the years, has helped women live the life they desire – without sacrifice. She’s a unique mix of east coast sensibility, west coast golden girl, ballerina and international business professional. She lives in France with her husband and 2 boys while running her international company, Elegant Femme.